One more thing looking up the subscription like joe said could help. for ex:- if the subscription = "from"  for a contact. then it means that the contact has subscribed to your presence . You could use this to render add requests . Also are u are u parsing the <presence .. </presence> tags properly.... if type = "subscribe" it means that you have recvd an add request from the contact as in <presence type="subscribe from="<a href="mailto:shashi_jimi@gmail.com">shashi_jimi@gmail.com</a>" to="<a href="http://gmsk19@gmail.com/4978C875">gmsk19@gmail.com/4978C875</a>"/> <div class="gmail_quote">On Thu, May 29, 2008 at 10:10 AM, shashi kiran <<a href="mailto:gmsk19@gmail.com">gmsk19@gmail.com</a>> wrote: <blockquote class="gmail_quote" style="border-left: 1px solid rgb(204, 204, 204); margin: 0pt 0pt 0pt 0.8ex; padding-left: 1ex;"> vitor, I had tried this quite a few servers the prominent bieng ejabberd. I have also tried this with  many open XMPP IM systems which include j<a href="http://abber.org" target="_blank">abber.org</a> ,<a href="http://movsoftware.com" target="_blank">movsoftware.com</a> , evn GTalk and our own internal IM at my organization. I also did have a bug similar to the one mentioned here but that was not because of the server , it was due to my Client calling deny somewhere in the program which i handled later. It works fine now.<div> <div></div><div class="Wj3C7c"> <div class="gmail_quote">On Wed, May 28, 2008 at 7:56 PM, Joe Hildebrand <<a href="mailto:hildjj@gmail.com" target="_blank">hildjj@gmail.com</a>> wrote: <blockquote class="gmail_quote" style="border-left: 1px solid rgb(204, 204, 204); margin: 0pt 0pt 0pt 0.8ex; padding-left: 1ex;"> Have you retrieved your roster, also?  If so, look at the subscription attribute on items.  If not, you might start getting notifications when you do. <div><div></div><div> On May 28, 2008, at 8:20 AM, vitor manuel tavares rodrigues wrote: > today i've tried with openfire in windows as a jabber server and > exodus/ > spark as clients. > > a client sent an invitation to another client and when I received this > invitation i've logged out without accepting or rejecting the > invitation. > when i login again, the invitation did not appear, although I do not > having > accepted or rejected in the previous session. > > Shashi, you have done this before with which server? > > > regards, > > Vitor Rodrigues > > > On Wed, 28 May 2008 10:08:48 +0530, "shashi kiran" <<a href="mailto:gmsk19@gmail.com" target="_blank">gmsk19@gmail.com</a>> > wrote: >> I had developed a similar app for mobile. I am for sure he will >> receive > the >> invite the next time he logs in albeit in a different stanza type. >> >> *Regards >> Shashi Kiran G M* >> >> On Tue, May 27, 2008 at 11:01 PM, <<a href="mailto:vitor@easyclick.pt" target="_blank">vitor@easyclick.pt</a>> wrote: >> >>>> On 05/27/2008 11:18 AM, <a href="mailto:vitor@easyclick.pt" target="_blank">vitor@easyclick.pt</a> wrote: >>>>>> Hello, >>>>>> >>>>>> Le 27 mai 08 �  18:23, <a href="mailto:vitor@easyclick.pt" target="_blank">vitor@easyclick.pt</a> a écrit : >>>>>> >>>>>>> Hi all!!! >>>>>>> >>>>>>> I'm using jabberd to develop a mobile application. >>>>>>> >>>>>>> When i send an invitation to a friend, he receives a >>>>>>> notification. >>>>>>> If he >>>>>>> does nothing (accept/deny) and logout, when he login again the >>>>>>> invitation >>>>>>> doesn't appear, although in database we are not subscribed to >>>>>>> each >>>>>>> other. >>>>>>> >>>>>>> this notification only apears once? >>>>>>> >>>>>>> where can i find more information about that? >>>>>> >>>>>> The XMPP specification says it *should* receive the subscription >>>>>> addition demand on every login until he does something. >>>>>> It might not depending on which server you are using. >>>>>> >>>>>> Reference: >>>>>> RFC 3921 section 9.4: Server Delivery and Client >>>>>> Acknowledgement of >>>>>> Subscription Requests and State Change Notifications: >>>>>> >>>>>> "In order to require acknowledgement, a server SHOULD send the >> request >>>>>> or notification to the recipient each time the recipient logs in, >>>>>> until the recipient acknowledges receipt of the notification by >>>>>> "affirming" or "denying" the notification" >>>>>> >>>>>> -- >>>>>> Mickaël Rémond >>>>>>  <a href="http://www.process-one.net/" target="_blank">http://www.process-one.net/</a> >>>>> >>>>> >>>>> >>>>> thank you Micka�l >>>>> >>>>> i tried whit different clients and the notification only is show >> once. I >>>>> need to force the request to send another notification. >>>>> >>>>> someone knows if the server has any kind of configuration to solve >> this >>>>> or >>>>> anyone has the same problem? >>>> >>>> Typically this is not configurable, since servers are coded to do >>>> the >>>> right thing. 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